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Entry 1 sense Webster, 1913

Tantalize

/tăn'-təl-īzˌ/ · Tan·ta·lize · IPA /ˈtæntəlaɪz/
01 v. t. To tease or torment by presenting some good to the view and exciting desire, but continually frustrating the expectations by keeping that g…
imp. & p. p. Tantalized; p. pr. & vb. n. Tantalizing
  1. 1.
    To tease or torment by presenting some good to the view and exciting desire, but continually frustrating the expectations by keeping that good out of reach; to tease; to torment.
    “Thy vain desires, at strife Within themselves, have tantalized thy life.” Dryden.
Syn. To tease; vex; irritate; provoke.
-- Tantalize, Disappoint. To disappoint is literally to do away with what was (or was taken to be) appointed; hence the peculiar pain from hopes thus dashed to the ground. To tantalize, a much stronger term, describes a most distressing form of disappointment, as in the case of Tantalus, the Phrygian king. To tantalize is to visit with the bitterest disappointment -- to torment by exciting hopes or expectations which can never be realized.