D defs.my
Entry 2 senses Webster, 1913

Upsetting

/əp-sĕt'-ĭng/ · Up·set·ting · IPA /əpsˈɛtɪŋ/
01 a. Conceited; assuming; as, an upsetting fellow.
  1. 1.
    Conceited; assuming; as, an upsetting fellow.[Scot.]
  2. 2.
    such as to disturb the self-possession of; unnerving; causing mental distress; as, the sight was an upsetting experience.